Before the fast-paced job I hold right now, I live in my
mom’s spare room, have someone do my laundry, was not given
major household chores than just set the table during meals and was only told
to clean my room when my mom would feel the need to penalize me for coming home
late.
I don’t have a job but to study and go to school yet I’m
often faced with the overwhelming feeling of having a lot of things to do with
so little time. There’s always this mean monster trying to get me so it felt
like I’m running late every time. There’s always a book I planned on reading a
long time ago lying around untouched begging for my attention, a school paper
I’m cramming on that seems to take forever to conclude, closet that needs
organizing – with overflowing carelessly folded clothes as main fixture, trash
that needed to go over week ago and an awful string of things I somehow managed
to put off without any apparent reason. I could have done these all in one day;
to be honest, but my mind is just too crude to always have all the wrong
reasons to justify my act of negligence.
I later found that the problem lies on how I value my time. I don’t hold
a job, was not given any responsibility in school and was treating myself like
the bum that I was. I didn't feel the need to apply urgency in anything that I
do. I didn't feel the importance of getting things done right away to get to
another task thinking this would not really have significant effect on my daily
routine. My own life, my own pace - I
fell into a trap we call procrastination.
Why do we procrastinate?
Overwhelmingly underwhelming - there are more interesting
stuff lying around. We view the task at hand as seemingly unimportant or
something that do not have any huge impact in our lives that we let a series of
tasks pile over it until it’s forgotten. We see things based on how interesting
they are for us neglecting its importance. The struggle is on how long
something can hold our attention. Homework dulls in comparison to Xbox games or
even Facebook or even just lying around doing nothing - there‘s always going to
be a ‘more important’ thing to do.
Stop Procrastination
I was never a big believer in doing to-do list until I got
hired in a job that includes a lot of multitasking. Suddenly, minutes became
precious and all the bumming around seemed like a luxury I can’t afford
anymore. I tried going through everything mentally but then I discovered the
power of post-its! I write all the things I would need to accomplish daily and
arrange them base on priority. Don’t get
intimidated with time pressure and allocate a timeframe to each task. This will
help push you in getting with your goals.
Aside from the fact that it will help you get to your tasks in an organized
manner, you’ll get a huge amount of fulfillment just seeing how productively
you were able to manage your time. Believe me, it could be addicting even.
Later is not always
better and tomorrow should not be an option. Even the most mundane of all
my daily tasks – waking up at 3am – wages war between me dragging myself up the
first time the alarm hit and that little button of temporary heaven we call
snooze. And every time, again EVERY TIME, whenever I let that little devil win,
I would always end up in trouble getting late for work or starting the day in a
very sour mood. We need to free ourselves from that lie of temporary relief
from the truth – truth being that whether we delay or not, that something needs
to be done and the longer you delay the harder it gets for it to be completed.
•Live for the reward
Love yourself. Love yourself more when you manage to
overcome the temptation of more interesting but useless things and were able to
set your priorities straight. Go right ahead and buy yourself that cup of
coffee for a job well-done. Promise yourself that salon trip when all the
writings on the post-its have been crashed out. This will give you something
fun to look forward to at the end of every completed task.
•Manage your thoughts
Give it a thorough filter – get those that are not related
to your task off, close all unnecessary brain tabs. Sometimes, we need to say
no to entertaining unnecessary thoughts to give bigger room to whatever task is
at hand. Say no to crowded thoughts. Close your social networks, stay away from
the television, get to your own private place and obliterate the distraction.
This way your train of thought works smoothly and uninterrupted.
On top of these, COMMIT.
Commit on being better at getting things done. Commit on
forgetting about tomorrow and what you can . Commit on an unfazed focus under
pressure. Commit on mastering evading
procrastination.
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